Play Party Wardrobe

What do I wear to a party? Well, there are a few things to consider first:

  • Does the space allow nudity?
  • Do you have to pass through a public space before the event?
  • What is your role at the event?

Dos and Don’ts


  • Dress as sexy as you like! This is your chance to literally let your freak flag fly. Have a harness or roleplay outfit you’ve been dying to wear? Always wanted to cross-dress or do some gender-fucky? Now’s the time.
  • Always have a cover-up available – be it a robe, muumuu, dress, or similar – in case of emergency.
  • Consider wearing comfy clothes over or alongside your sexy gear – a hoodie and sweatpants are great when you’re coming down from a scene.
  • Bring indoor, flat footwear. (Note: indoor shoes are required in The Warehouse)
  • Dress comfortably – nothing that restricts regular movement when socializing.
  • Bring a towel (or 2). They really do come in handy! (Note: Towels are required if using the hot tub, or to lay on furniture if nude.)


  • Wear stilettos or any footwear with sharp details (like spiked boots).
  • Wear spiked clothing if you plan to play on the furniture.
  • Wear anything that requires 2 or more people to put on or remove.
  • Wear anything that restricts breathing or that you plan to use as such – collars are fine – as long as they are not used for breath control.
  • Wear anything considered a hate symbol. This includes any patches or insignia with hate symbols or speech.
  • Impersonate law enforcement or any other enforcement agency.

Play Party Packing List

Dress Codes

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What on earth is a “slosh”?

Fog City Kink is committed to hosting sloshes/munches for our local community for a couple of different reasons.

  1. To build IRL community. We love our online kink community but meeting with folks in person, sharing experiences, making new connections, is important to us.
  2. To create a safe space for newcomers to get the information they need. Being isolated as a newcomer to BDSM and other kinks leaves new folks at risk of exploitation. We want them to know they have a community they can come to with questions and concerns.
  3. These community gatherings are the perfect spaces to vet for our events. We can do a vibe check, go over our rules & expectations, and walk folks through the membership process.

And, while we’re at it let’s take a look at the Rules & Expectations for all FCK Sloshes.